Couple Makes $11,500 A Month But Only Has $3,000 Saved And No Retirement – Dave Ramsey Slams 'Asinine' Lifestyle: 'You're Freaking Broke!'

A recent call on The Ramsey Show posted to TikTok highlighted how fast even a solid income can vanish under the pressure of debt and overspending. Alyssa, a mental health therapist, called in to discuss her family's financial struggles after recently getting remarried. Despite their combined income of $130,000 – well above the national average of $80,610 in 2023 – Alyssa and her husband barely make ends meet. With only $3,000 in savings and no contributions to retirement, they're stuck in a cycle of paycheck-to-paycheck living.

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They owe $60,000 on cars, have a $240,000 mortgage, and are burdened by $140,000 in student loan debt –$90,000 from Alyssa's schooling, and $40,000 from her husband, who has little to show for it. "Who's the lawyer?" Dave Ramsey asked, pointing out how massive the debt seemed. Alyssa chuckled, responding, "I'm a mental health therapist."

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Ramsey's co-host, George Kamel, questioned why they hadn't aggressively tackled the debt yet. Alyssa explained that fear keeps holding them back while they’ve tried – particularly concerns about having enough for her 9-year-old daughter. Alyssa, who's self-employed, and her husband, who works in construction, face income instability. She worries about catastrophic expenses wiping them out.

That didn't sit well with Ramsey, who cut right to the chase. "You're making $130,000 a year, and you're freaking broke. That's what I'm worried about. You're driving cars you can't afford, and you have a lifestyle that's absolutely asinine."

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"And that's got nothing to do with a 9-year-old," Ramsey added. "What does she need that's costing you thousands of dollars a month?" Alyssa admitted that it wasn't the child's expenses, more of a "just in case" mentality.

But while Ramsey's blunt advice may sting, Alyssa's situation isn't all that uncommon. According to a 2023 survey by Payroll.org, 78% of Americans live paycheck to paycheck, a 6% increase from the previous year. Earning a good income is no longer a guarantee of financial security, especially when debt and overspending take over.

"You guys have no idea where this money goes," Ramsey pointed out, urging Alyssa to look at their situation as if she were counseling another family. "If I hired you to look at this family objectively, you'd tell them to sell a car or two. You're not going on vacation because you're broke."

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Ramsey then got Alyssa to confront a hard truth. "You've got student loan debt hanging on so long you think it's a pet," he said. He laid a path for them to be debt-free in two to two and a half years – if they make serious sacrifices. That means no vacations, selling at least one car, cutting unnecessary spending, and finally facing the uncomfortable reality of their financial choices. "It won't be comfortable," Ramsey said. He added, "It'll set you up for an awesome life for the rest of your lives." 

As tough as Ramsey's advice may be, it offers a real shot at a better future. No matter how uncomfortable, making sacrifices now can set you up for financial freedom.

A financial advisor could be the next step to getting things on track. They can guide you on paying off debt and investing for retirement, helping you make decisions that benefit your present and future self.

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