Shaquille O'Neal may have dominated on the court, but in matters of the heart? He's the first to admit — he dropped the ball.
After ex-wife Shaunie O'Neal said she wasn't sure she ever really loved him, Shaq didn't dodge. He didn't deflect. He just posted one simple, gut-punch of a message on Instagram last May:
"I understand. I wouldn't have been in love with me either. Wishing you all the best. All love." The post caption read, "trust me, I get it."
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The post sent fans into a frenzy. Some were heartbroken. Others were worried. Was he okay? Even son Shareef jumped into the comments with a reality check:
"Love you, man! You saved my life. Literally the most lovable and likable person on the planet."
Shaunie had just gone public with her memoir, "Undefeated: Changing the Rules and Winning On My Own Terms", where she wrote, "Looking back, I don't know that I was ever really in love with the man, but I was in love with the idea of being married to the man I had a family with."
She described enjoying time with him on NBA road trips — but made it clear the marriage was built more on image and routine than deep connection.
Shaq, to his credit, took the hit. And this wasn't his first time owning up to his role in the collapse. Back in 2022, on "The Pivot Podcast", he said bluntly:
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"I was bad. She was awesome. She really was. It was all me. She did exactly what she was supposed to do…gave me beautiful kids, take care of the house, take care of the corporate stuff. It was all me."
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He also revealed what life looked like after she and the kids moved out of their 76,000-square-foot mansion in Orlando — and spoiler: it wasn't luxury, it was loneliness.
"You go to the gym — nobody. Go to their rooms — nobody. You start to feel it. The silence starts to get to you."
Shaq had it all — fame, money, trophies — but admits he lost the one thing that actually made that house a home.
Shaunie remarried in 2022. Shaq remains single — but still full of grace. "I'm happy for her. I hope this gentleman treats her the way she's supposed to be treated. I'ma still love her," he told Essence.
In the end, the Big Diesel reminds everyone: even giants can feel small when the house is too quiet.
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